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Where to meet halfway between East Astoria & Woodside and North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

East Astoria & Woodside and North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway are about 1.2 miles apart. The fairest first date spots are around North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway, roughly 0.7 miles from each of you. For a drink, try Aloha Nyc; for coffee, Caffe Borbone.

For drinks

Ordered so neither of you has the longer trip by much. Miles are as the crow flies.

  1. Aloha Nyc

    Lounge

    0.7 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.7 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~7 min from Astoria Blvd (N W)Map

  2. Olympia Lounge & Garden

    Lounge

    0.7 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.5 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~9 min from Astoria-Ditmars Blvd (N W)MapWebsite

  3. Rotana Lounge

    Lounge

    0.5 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.8 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~10 min from Astoria Blvd (N W)MapWebsite

  4. Jasmine hookah lounge

    Bar

    0.5 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.8 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~9 min from Astoria Blvd (N W)MapWebsite

  5. Albatross Bar

    Gay bar

    0.7 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.6 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~8 min from Astoria Blvd (N W)MapWebsite

For coffee

  1. Caffe Borbone

    Coffee shop

    0.6 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.8 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~9 min from Astoria Blvd (N W)MapWebsite

  2. Y J Coffee Shop

    Coffee shop

    0.7 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.6 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~9 min from Astoria Blvd (N W)MapWebsite

  3. Haraz Coffee House

    Coffee shop

    0.5 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.8 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~10 min from Astoria Blvd (N W)MapWebsite

  4. Star Cafe Au Lait

    Café

    0.7 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.8 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~4 min from Astoria Blvd (N W)MapWebsite

  5. Thame Kafe

    Coffee shop

    0.8 mi from East Astoria & Woodside · 0.5 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway

    ~9 min from Astoria-Ditmars Blvd (N W)Map

Or meet on one side

If one of you doesn’t mind the trip, each neighborhood has its own list.

East Astoria & WoodsideQueens · 30 bars · 19 coffee spotsNorth Astoria, Ditmars & SteinwayQueens · 20 bars · 20 coffee spots

Questions

People also ask

Where is halfway between East Astoria & Woodside and North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway?

The two are about 1.2 miles apart as the crow flies. The spots where both of you travel about the same distance are mostly around North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway.

What’s a good first date spot between East Astoria & Woodside and North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway?

Aloha Nyc is 0.7 mi from East Astoria & Woodside and 0.7 mi from North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway. Olympia Lounge & Garden is another fair choice for drinks. For coffee, Caffe Borbone works for both of you.

Why meet in the middle for a first date?

Neither person carries the whole trip, so it reads as considerate rather than convenient for one side. Suggest the place with both travel times in mind, and offer to swap it if it doesn’t suit them.

More places to meet halfway

East Astoria & Woodside ↔ Elmhurst2.2 mi apart · fair spots in betweenEast Astoria & Woodside ↔ Sunnyside1.7 mi apart · fair spots in betweenAstoria ↔ North Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway1.3 mi apart · fair spots in betweenNorth Astoria, Ditmars & Steinway ↔ Upper East Side & Yorkville2.3 mi apart · fair spots in between

How this list is made: spots are open, independent cafés, bars and restaurants, chosen for being close to the subway and on blocks with plenty of other places nearby. Nobody pays to be listed. Distances are straight-line and walking times are estimates, so check opening hours before you go. Updated 2026-10-13. Data: Places: Overture Maps Foundation (CDLA-Permissive-2.0); 2020 Neighborhood Tabulation Areas, NYC Department of City Planning (NYC Open Data); MTA Subway Stations (data.ny.gov); Parks Properties, NYC Parks (NYC Open Data).