Where to meet halfway between East Astoria & Woodside and Elmhurst
East Astoria & Woodside and Elmhurst are about 2.2 miles apart. The fairest first date spots are around Jackson Heights, roughly 1.1 miles from each of you. For a drink, try Ready Penny Inn; for coffee, Miranda Cafe.
For drinks
Ordered so neither of you has the longer trip by much. Miles are as the crow flies.
For coffee
Or meet on one side
If one of you doesn’t mind the trip, each neighborhood has its own list.
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Where is halfway between East Astoria & Woodside and Elmhurst?
The two are about 2.2 miles apart as the crow flies. The spots where both of you travel about the same distance are mostly around Jackson Heights.
What’s a good first date spot between East Astoria & Woodside and Elmhurst?
Ready Penny Inn is 1.2 mi from East Astoria & Woodside and 1.0 mi from Elmhurst. Upstairs Cocktail Bar is another fair choice for drinks. For coffee, Miranda Cafe works for both of you.
Why meet in the middle for a first date?
Neither person carries the whole trip, so it reads as considerate rather than convenient for one side. Suggest the place with both travel times in mind, and offer to swap it if it doesn’t suit them.
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How this list is made: spots are open, independent cafés, bars and restaurants, chosen for being close to the subway and on blocks with plenty of other places nearby. Nobody pays to be listed. Distances are straight-line and walking times are estimates, so check opening hours before you go. Updated 2026-10-13. Data: Places: Overture Maps Foundation (CDLA-Permissive-2.0); 2020 Neighborhood Tabulation Areas, NYC Department of City Planning (NYC Open Data); MTA Subway Stations (data.ny.gov); Parks Properties, NYC Parks (NYC Open Data).