First date spots in Upper West Side & Lincoln Square
For a first date in Upper West Side & Lincoln Square, start with drinks at Lilly's Cocktail and Wine or coffee at Sensuous Bean of Columbus Ave, both a short walk from the subway. The area has 23 coffee spots, 20 bars and 133 restaurants in our map data, so there’s always somewhere to go next. The busiest stretch is around 72 St (1 2 3).
For drinks
Cocktail bars, wine bars and pubs on busy blocks — easy to find, easy to move on from.
For coffee
A low-key first date: short, daytime, no pressure.
For dinner
When you already know there’s a spark.
For a walk, then a stop
Walk and talk first, then sit down somewhere close by.
Meeting someone from another neighborhood?
Fair spots where you both travel about the same distance.
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What are good first date spots in Upper West Side & Lincoln Square?
For drinks, Lilly's Cocktail and Wine (wine bar) or Bouchon Bakery & Cafe (winery). For coffee, Sensuous Bean of Columbus Ave or Solid State Coffee. For dinner, TAP NYC. All of them are on blocks with other spots nearby, so the date can move on easily if it’s going well.
Where should we go for a first date drink in Upper West Side & Lincoln Square?
Lilly's Cocktail and Wine is 4 min from 72 St (C B), with 52 other spots within a three-minute walk. Bouchon Bakery & Cafe is 2 min from 59 St-Columbus Circle (1 A C B D). Pick somewhere easy to talk in and easy to leave — that matters more on a first date than the drinks list.
Is Upper West Side & Lincoln Square a good neighborhood for a first date?
Yes for most dates: it has 23 coffee spots, 20 bars and 133 restaurants in our data, with 72 of them within a six-minute walk of 72 St (1 2 3). For a walk first, Central Park is right there, and Bouchon Bakery & Cafe is 1 min from it.
Where can we meet halfway if one of us lives in Upper West Side & Lincoln Square?
There are fair-spot guides for Upper West Side & Lincoln Square and Midtown & Times Square, Upper West Side, Upper East Side, Lenox Hill & Roosevelt Island and East Midtown & Turtle Bay: each lists bars and coffee spots where both of you travel about the same distance. For anywhere else, use the free Meet Halfway tool.
Near Upper West Side & Lincoln Square
How this list is made: spots are open, independent cafés, bars and restaurants, chosen for being close to the subway and on blocks with plenty of other places nearby. Nobody pays to be listed. Distances are straight-line and walking times are estimates, so check opening hours before you go. Updated 2026-10-13. Data: Places: Overture Maps Foundation (CDLA-Permissive-2.0); 2020 Neighborhood Tabulation Areas, NYC Department of City Planning (NYC Open Data); MTA Subway Stations (data.ny.gov); Parks Properties, NYC Parks (NYC Open Data).